It is so easy for us to quickly loose our temper and have a plan of attack when faced with situations where people take advantage of us and hurt us, if you are like me your mind rushes to plan out your revenge, you can see it playing out in your head to make those who hurt you pay for their actions. Then there is a minute where the Holy Spirit takes control and says remember Jesus teachings, the bible says be slow to anger.
We all struggle with issues sometimes beyond our control that can escalate, as Christians we are called to forgive, "be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil” (Ephesians 4:26–27). Although it is not always easy, we should check our attitude as well as our motive before becoming angry with others.Paul gives us some sound advice on the appropriate approach: “Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord. On the contrary: ‘If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.’ Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (Romans 12:19–21).