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Faith
We were at a class and the topic of discussion that came up was about faith "what does faith mean to me" to be exact. After spending some time thinking about what faith means to me I came up with what I believe is the accurate definition of what faith is in my life.
Faith
"A peaceful and confident journey, trusting and knowing that Jesus is walking with me while God is ahead of anything that I face whether good or bad but either way ending with the gift of eternal life"
What would our life really look like if we actually lived this out? What effect will this have on your marriage? Imagine waking up each morning, opening your eyes to see Jesus right there ready and waiting to walk out the day with you. What would that feeling be like? Would you feel intimidated, confident, nervous, on guard, safe, loved? How would this change your actions, behaviors and responses through the day?
I mean, we say we have faith but we wait to encounter difficult situations to pray out to God often seeking resolve for what we go through but how about if walk out in faith ahead of time? Think how different our lives would be, how many setbacks we would avoid, how many arguments would we prevent if we actually walked out the faith we speak about, pray about and learn about.
I challenge you to start your day imagining Jesus walking besides you each day so that you can enjoy a peace that surpasses all understanding, so that you can experience true relationship with our Father during your time here on Earth. Psalm 121:8 says "The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore" Let us embrace this scripture and really believe what we say we believe as God is already ahead of anything we can encounter.
In His Presence
You are right where God wants you to be, In His presence! Sometimes you rush to get your day started and others you lay in bed in awe of the miracle of just being able to open your eyes and breathe.
Regardless of what your day looks like, you can rest find peace knowing that Jesus always walks beside you, not only in moments of despair but as you awake and sit quietly drinking your coffee or as you take it on the road with you, He is with you always, whether we realize it or not He is right there living through your. The Bible says "The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged" Deuteronomy 31:8
He will have a random stranger speak into you and use you to speak His word into someone else, just like that! He will be your peace in times of chaos and your joy in times of despair. He will gift you a calmness that truly surpasses even your own understanding.
We are saved and treasured by a God that is with us every moment of the day even in those dark hours when even thinking about it fills us with shame, fear or feel unworthy of His love and mercy. Every day we live another life lesson, but be assured the struggles you face are the rope that pulls someone else to freedom. Your test is the testimony that will help set others free, embrace it! When you share your testimony you break free from the enemy's plan to keep you quiet, that plan to attack your mind over and over again causing shame and fear to paralyze you.
Tomorrow, be intentional when you open your eyes and say "Lord, I invite you to be with me this day, to guide me, protect me and give me the wisdom I need to own this day as I welcome you to live through me; allow me to be your eyes, hands and feet throughout the day.
It is amazing how God can take one day and transform your life if you are willing to invite Him to be the center of it.
To Hell With This
Relationship goals
For those that have no idea who Michael Todd is you are just missing out. Pastor Todd of Transformation Church in Oklahoma is by far one of the realest of our time. His ministry continues to reach millions around the world every Sunday with his message to represent God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ. In 2019 his relationship goals message went viral on YouTube and God continues to speak through him and his wife with this new book which is just the beginning. If you do nothing else this year for spiritual growth and personal growth at least be encouraged to follow pastor Todd and Transformation Church as God is using them to bless millions.
So Relationship Goals, what does that mean? It sure means more than the cute selfies and posts we see across social media going viral and single ladies using the hashtag #relationshipgoals which by the way, at the time of this article has over fifteen million searches on google. That is actually 15 million people seeking something for their relationship and rest assure is more than a cute picture to post.
Our friend Webster defines relationships as a state of affairs existing between those having relations or dealings, and defines goal as the end toward which effort is directed. So simply put its safe to say a relationship goal for a couple is being with someone and together work towards a set of goals. Those goals to name a few can be working towards marriage, family and wealth. The problem is that in order to win in these areas it requires work, it requires being in one accord and most of all a lot of God along the way.
When it comes to marriage a book like relationship goals is perfect because it goes into a raw look of how to win in dating, marriage and sex. You can read thousand of books on the subject but it won't mean a thing to you because in order for us to be encouraged on a personal level we need to hear from those that have walked through the valley and come out victorious and it is only by sharing their struggle and vulnerable transparency that we can learn from their mistakes and learn how Gods grace is sufficient for all of us to survive the storms of marriage.
Remember free people free people, when you share your struggles giving God the glory He continues to give you the wisdom to win in relationship and that is the ultimate goal.
A Transparent Marriage
www.atransparentmarriage.com
Don't let isolation be your default
The Bible teaches us that Jesus often withdrew from people and the demands of his ministry to pray and be with the Father. It was during those isolating moments that Jesus heard from the Father and prepared for the demands before him. When storms of life sway us left and right in our marriage, it is easy to default to isolation and hide our pain and suffering from the world leading to feeling depressed and defeated. What if instead we used those challenging times to isolate welcoming in his presence versus isolating automatically to focus on all the bad things that are happening in our life?
We learn in Ephesians 4:11-13 that "with God beside us and His Spirit to guide us we can navigate the waters of loneliness and come into the rest and peace that comes from giving up all efforts to satisfy my human desires giving myself entirely over to God" Be encouraged that in moments when life gets rough you have another option to select, you can choose to invite Jesus into your life and let the Father comfort, guide you and give you the wisdom to deal with the situation at hand.
Allow Jesus to be the alternative default in the presence of conflict and just like Jesus you will hear from the Father. Remember in Luke 11:17 we read that 'Jesus knew their thoughts and said to them: "Any kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and a house divided against itself will fail" Don't give the enemy a free pass to defeat you, you don't get to confront him alone.
A Transparent Marriage
www.atransparentmarriage.com
Who do you say that I am
Who do you say I am
Am I the genie in the bottle that you rub so that your wishes come true.
Who do you say I am
Am I the only one you call to when there’s a problem.
Am I the one you pray to reminding me you do good deeds, knowing that you want glory from men.
Who do you say I am?
I am who you need me to be, I am that I am.
I am the beginning and the end, The Alpha and The Omega. The one who listens when you cry, the one who calls on you to change your direction and your outlook for you to take a step back and change your perspective. I am also the one who listens and the one who gives and takes.
Who do you serve?
In this day in age its easy to call yourself a believer, that by accepting Jesus you are transformed, that you are filled with the Holy Spirit. Yet many continue to do the same thing as before.
As a believer and follower, we are called to be His servants, yet we continue to serve a worldly God.
A Transparent Marriage
Finding our treasure!
How about if daily you decided to take an inventory of your deeds, to make sure you do good because when you go home to your eternal life you want to make sure you are rewarded, You don’t wanna look around and think "had I only did this or that on Earth I would have earned that and that in Heaven", be led by that feeling of pleasing the Lord in all your ways versus impressing man so that you can hear “Well done, good and faithful servant You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master's happiness!" Matthew 25:21.
Heaven is real! Jesus died for us to live eternally, that is so crazy, still to this day we are awe of the ultimate sacrifice, a sacrifice that easily goes unnoticed as we live each day. A sacrifice that we don’t deserve, a sacrifice that will guarantee us free entry through heavenly gates some day.
Wow, Wow, Wow. Can you just imagine the magnitude of what that means? People will mock us, will put us down and will talk about us because we know something they don’t know yet. We found the ultimate treasure and It has the name of Jesus.
A Transparent Marriage
www.atransparentmarriage.com